I understand why you left me now,“ she said softly, “I was a mess, and I resented you for everything. I wanted you to fix me, or at least help me fix myself. I didn’t realise that nothing you did would ever be enough. I couldn’t see that I was the only person who had the power to make things better for myself.
Some women rush to be in a relationship with dysfunctional men and stick around hoping to prove the people around them wrong and then get upset when years have passed and nothing in life is improving.